A while back I had a post about how girls sabotage each other because of competitiveness in the sexual and dating markets. I noted an important fact that chicks try to lower each others value no matter how good or bad they look. The importance of this fact is that a girl might not understand that a higher-quality girl is trying to keep her down, so now you know.
How the Sabotage Happens
There are two main things that men look for in women that other girls can attack: their looks and their reputation. Every single time that a chick tells another chick that she should eat more or cut her hair or wear something ugly, that’s working to sabotage the girl’s looks. Every single time that a chick talks shit about another chick behind her back, that’s working to sabotage her reputation.
My girlfriend talked about how a coworker of hers sabotages the chicks around her by offering them lots of sweets and other food. This woman will push cookies, cupcakes and whatever else onto her female coworkers. It’s absolutely hilarious to hear about because my chica realizes what’s going on and doesn’t give in. The woman continues to bother her over it after she says no multiple times, which is also hilarious to me.
All you have to do to stop a woman’s efforts at sabotaging how you look is to ignore their bullshit. Dealing with a woman’s efforts to damage your reputation, however, can seem a bit more complicated. I’m here to tell you that it’s really not.
The Mechanics of the Situation
Women who want to get high-quality men have to deal with the fact that they are competing for a limited resource. Each of the things I outlined in the link in the previous sentence is an exploitative strategy in a sense. Trying to sabotage a woman’s efforts is the counter to that strategy.
If you show a little more cleavage and leg than you normally do, then a woman could try to trash you by saying you’re a slut. Wear high heels and dress nicer, and a woman can say you’re stuck-up. Lose weight and she’ll call you anorexic. Pick any good thing about you, and a woman can turn that into a negative that will try to undermine your standing with men.
However, this counter-strategy against your effort can only work in one of two cases. In the first case, you’ve taken things too far and you really are stuck-up, dressing like a slut or anorexic. If that’s the case, there’s not much you can do but play at damage control because it’s true. However, the second case is that you’ve not taken things too far and you react to what she’s saying about you. If the allegations are not true, then reacting to them is the only way that you can lose status.
Quality Men Know Women Talk Shit About Other Women
The good men that you are going for will know that women talk copious amounts of shit about other women. Ask any good man that you know about it, and he will tell you this. It’s just a fact of life. If a woman calls you a stuck-up, anorexic slut, then a high-quality man will not care at all unless you react to it. When you react to it, then it makes it seem like there is some truth to the situation. It’s easy to not react to it when you realize what it is: a natural instinct to try to improve her status in the dating market. It’s not personal.
What Have Women Said About You?
I want to hear what kinds of crazy shit women have said about you. Have you ever been sabotaged by other females? Tell me about it in the comments so I have some good examples to use in the future.